Surviving Strict Asian Parents – A Guide to Mastering the Art of Approval

 If you’ve grown up with strict Asian parents, you know that navigating their expectations is like trying to complete a boss level with one life left and zero cheat codes. These parents don’t just raise kids—they raise overachievers, warriors, and perfectionists, all while maintaining the fear factor of a seasoned drill sergeant.

Step 1: Academic Excellence or Bust

Forget good grades—we’re talking about grades that make the neighbors’ kids look like they’ve been slacking off. Got a 98 on that test? "Where are the other 2 marks?" Did you rank second in your class? "Why aren’t you first?" Asian parents treat report cards like Olympic scoreboards—you either win gold or you’re an absolute disgrace to the family name. No pressure.

Step 2: Social Life? What’s That?

Going out with friends? Pfft. Asian parents are more likely to believe you’re planning a secret mission to Mars than just hanging out at the mall. You’ll need to submit a full itinerary, including names, addresses, parent contact numbers, and a GPS tracking device strapped to your shoe. And if you’re lucky enough to get permission? Don’t even think about coming home a minute late. The door might just lock itself out of shame.

Step 3: The Art of Silent Judgement

If you’re ever greeted with a subtle sigh or a disappointed head shake, you know you’ve messed up. Asian parents don’t always need words to destroy your confidence—sometimes a single glare is enough to make you question your entire existence. Your biggest mistake? Probably breathing too loudly while studying.

Step 4: Food Is Love, Food Is Life

Don’t get me wrong—strict Asian parents may seem terrifying, but they’ll also cook up a feast that could feed an army. They’ll load your plate with food as if they’re preparing you for a year-long hibernation. Food is their love language—if you’re not eating, they’re offended. But don’t get used to it because right after dinner, it’s time to go back to being a model child.

Final Thoughts: Love Wrapped in Expectations

Behind the ironclad rules and high standards, there’s a whole lot of love—even if it sometimes feels like boot camp. Strict Asian parents may push you to your limits, but they’re also the reason you’re resilient, hardworking, and capable of tackling life head-on. So, take it from me—learn to laugh through the chaos and appreciate the discipline. One day, you’ll look back and realize it made you stronger (and just a little bit paranoid).

Haru💁